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遊民畫家泊仔送的畫像,在左圖中白鳥的右下方,就是他自己。

  我想我是一個認真的人,有時候到了嚴肅的地步。還記得剛入小學的第一課就是ㄅㄆㄇㄈ,老師說下週要考,可是一週過去了,我還沒全學會,急得不得了,回家就發燒了,媽媽還得幫我惡補。下星期老師竟然完全忘了考試這回事!而我至今餘悸猶存。
  最近一位好友退休,她在嚴肅這件事上比我更勝一籌,在我們為她舉行的餐會中一絲不苟地討論未來生活的意義,我勸她不必急,不妨先混一混。李豐(寫《我賺了四十年》的那位台大醫師)在電話上聽了我的轉述,大笑道:「你混得怎樣?」我說:「不錯啊!」她卻不以為然:「我聽妳聲音就知道妳還是那樣,說話太快了!」幾十年來她一直勸我慢下來。慢才能品味生活,才能靜攬人生,才能修鍊身心。
  不僅需要調整步調,我也想改變自己的寫作風格,輕鬆一點,閒適一點,更多一點生活,多一點感覺。渴望有自己的部落格,不被字數、時尚、市場、刊物風格、主編好惡綁住。大部分是為自己寫吧,也為了分享,至於未來,就交給上天了。 email: yenlinku@mail2000.com.tw
 

2024-07-14

Should Surrogacy be legalized in Taiwan

 yenlin ku  27/05/2024

The Ministry of Health and Welfare introduced a draft revision of the Assisted Reproduction Act last week, adding a new chapter to legalize surrogacy. It specified that "surrogacy should be an altruistic act, not a commercial endeavor for profit." Accordingly, the draft recognizes the surrogate neither as the biological or legal mother of the child nor as a paid laborer. It prohibits the use of her eggs in the conception; and she must surrender motherhood to the intended parents at the birth of the child. Yet she could receive no wage except a limited amount of compensation for nutrition or supplements, required counseling, medical care, transportation, insurance, and loss of work hours. However, she is obliged to perform motherly duties and adhere to the Protection of Children and Youths Welfare and Rights Act, refraining from tobacco and alcohol. Moreover, on top of previous experience of pregnancy and childbirth, she must work non-stop for over nine months at the risk of her own life and health.

2024-07-12

I am not a ciswoman

Yenlin Ku, May 2024

Recently I filled out an application form for a seminar on mental health and sexual violence in Taipei. The gender section offers three options: cisgender female (the Chinese translation meaning conforming female), cisgender (conforming) male, and other. After some consideration, I chose "other". Definitely I am not male. I am female, but nonconforming. For half a century I've been a feminist, dedicated to breaking the social constrains set upon women. Am I not a woman if I refuse to follow the stereotype of “woman”? Sojourner Truth’s centuries-old question: “Ain’t I a Woman?” echoes in my head, though we asked the same question for different reasons.